"Midwife to the birth of a Soul..."

This week a friend and fellow seeker after God passed away.  We seldom chatted at any great length during the 30 odd years we knew each other but he taught me to pay attention to my soul by giving my mind time to ponder and contemplate - to listen and gather the thoughts that meshed & clashed in my mind - to not be afraid of uncertainty - to face the questions and pursue them...knowing full well that this quest would continue until the day we die and we finally rest...body, soul and spirit.

As I read comments on Facebook and later heard comments read at the memorial service the one phrase which kept coming to mind was, "The greatest privilege of a human life is to become midwife to the birth of a soul."[John O'Donohue]  I was only one of many whom he helped birth... what a blessing to have those in our lives who coax our souls to life - who encourage us to find the "dreams that lie at the hearth of the soul."

In the days leading up to his passing I gave him the book, To Bless the Space Between Us, by John O'Donohue.  The last thing he said to me was, "I read the book."  As he agreed that he was now in that thin space between heaven and earth and held strongly to my hand as I sang over him a blessing... his soul was at peace, his mind at rest...

and so, Ken, as you enter heaven ...

"May your heart be speechless
At the sight of the truth
Of all belief had hoped,
Your heart breathless
In the light and lightness
Where each and everything
Is at last its true self
Within that serene belonging
That dwells beside us
On the other side
Of what we see."